A Brother Asks: Coach! I'm a bit frustrated and hurting. I'm not liking what I'm seeing in and getting from some of my brothers. Could you give me a quick guide? How can I spot Craft Ruffians?
My Response: Let me respond by providing you a quick and easy to use list of behaviors you can use to assess your Brothers should you want to identify them as Ruffians.
The Short List* for "You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he…"
Brother John S Nagy
(*Based upon the Extensive Lists, Instructions and Works found within:
Building Ruffish - Uncommon Field Guide for Uncommon Masonic Education - Volume 6)
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he inaccurately and purposely misrepresents a Brother.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he bears false witness and intentionally misquotes a Brother’s words so that they reflect poorly upon that Brother.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he maligns, misrepresents or vilifies a Brother’s intentions.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he indignantly condemns a Brother’s Work.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he sabotages a Brother’s pursuits and endeavors and the support that others might provide him.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he attacks, belittles and berates the institutions and faiths with which a Brother is associated.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he dismisses a Brother’s education as being suspect and not what he would choose for himself.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he misleads others about a Brother based upon his own conjectures.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he silently and continuously endorses the assassination of a Brother’s character.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he purposefully deals with a Brother indirectly, deceitfully so and with malicious intent masked in righteousness.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he encourages and endorses social pressures intended to sway Brothers toward his will and pleasure by manipulating those who surround and influence his target.
- You might be dealing with a Ruffian when he assures Brothers, by what he says and through what he does, that he mean others harm and he does so beyond any shadow of a heartfelt doubt.
Brother John S Nagy
(*Based upon the Extensive Lists, Instructions and Works found within:
Building Ruffish - Uncommon Field Guide for Uncommon Masonic Education - Volume 6)
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